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Sam

Sam is a solo female and experiential traveller who discovered that the best way to live, not exist, was to collect experiences. This can mean everything from everyday adventures in local places: a new cafe, getting lost down a side street, or trying a new activity - or bucket list experiences in far flung destinations. For example, she's been hot air ballooning over the Fairy Chimneys of Cappadocia and watched the Northern Lights dance in Norway. When she travels, her aim is always to experience local culture and life as far as possible. This way, she can better understand it and this is where the magic lies! Since becoming an experiential traveller and collector of experiences, Sam has been able to better manage her mental health and has seen improved happiness and wellbeing. Sam takes local transport, eats where locals eat and tries to engage in local activities rather than tourist trips. Sometimes, she'll collect luxury experiences but she's equally comfortable walking barefoot in nature. She started this blog due to popular demand, after she posted about a wonderfully-random New Year's Eve in Zanzibar on her Facebook and her friends kept asking her to write about what happened next. Soon, she was posting daily travel updates and getting requests for a blog and a book...and here we are.
The Barrakka lift in Valletta, sunrise over the rooftops, pasta from Le Poission in Bormla and a night time view of the Grand Harbour

Romance Wasn’t on the Ferry Schedule

March 20, 2025 by Sam

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Categories Travel Stories, Uncategorized
Images from Three Cities Malta: Bormla harbour, historic streets, a British phone box library and Maltese snacks of pastizzi and Twistees

A Tale of Three Cities

March 12, 2025March 12, 2025 by Sam

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Categories Travel Stories, Uncategorized
A collage of New Year's Day in Malta: the sunrise over the Grand harbout, 2025 in balloons in one of Valletta's streets and Sam's coffee, cake and journal for her year review exercise

New Year’s Day in Malta: a Valletta sunrise

March 12, 2025March 3, 2025 by Sam

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Categories Travel Stories

New Year’s Eve in Malta

March 3, 2025February 27, 2025 by Sam

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A collage of images from Onja taste of Tanzania restaurant in Cardiff: masala chai and chapati, the African artwork on the walls, meat, chapati and salad on a colourful plate and the vibrant sign above the door

Experience to collect: Onja – a taste of Tanzania

February 24, 2025February 24, 2025 by Sam

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Categories Allium allergy, Cardiff, Experience to collect, Restaurant, Reviews, Swahili cuisine
A collage of images showcasing some of my highlights of 2024: a living room fort, road tripping around Mauritius, Reformer Pilates and my first book published

2024 Wrapped: My Year in Review

December 22, 2024December 22, 2024 by Sam

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A selection of teal and hot pink travel gifts for people who are going travelling

20 Gifts for Travel Lovers

February 28, 2025December 15, 2024 by Sam

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Categories Reviews, Travel Tips
A Quiet Farewell to Morocco: the dinosaur statue in Anza, one of my final sunsets and Agadir airport departures

A Quiet Farewell to Morocco

December 18, 2024November 7, 2024 by Sam

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Categories Solo Travel
Fishing boats in Tagazout, sunset and surfers on the rocks and the rocks we sat on to watch the ocean

Exploring Taghazout

November 4, 2024 by Sam

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Moroccan mint tea, a Moroccan breakfast in Agadir, the gifts I received and the tailor who fixed my dress

Unexpected Moments and Moroccan Mint Tea

November 1, 2024 by Sam

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